1. As for kindergarten, Nora did great. I did laundry. When I walked into the empty house and saw small patches of the living room carpet showing through the second strata of Barbie paraphernalia, I almost turned around to wait in the truck for the next five hours until it was time to pick Nora up. Everything was so still. So quiet. I was terrified. Instead of facing the suspicious calm around me, I got to work cleaning and doing laundry. Maybe tomorrow I'll face the silence. Nope. Wait. I've got meetings all day. Oh, dang.
2. The garden is a towering jungle right now. Those pole beans I rigged up on that cattle panel have exceeded anything you might see in a cartoon rendition of Jack and the Beanstock. Seriously. I'm still canning and blanching and freezing. And on Friday nights, I still throw on my boots and get to work weeding and picking and cursing the lawnmower.
3. In Georgia where Tom lives everything grows everywhere. The problem in comparison to Nebraska is not how to get things growing--it's how to stop things from growing. I don't think I've been out there yet when we didn't go for a walk accompanied by the sound of whirring tree trimmers and weed whackers from every direction in the neighborhood. If you stand still for too long there, you need clippers just to undo your tennis shoes from the ivy that's grown over the top of them. And, yes, I love that. There's no place greener.
4. My classes start in a little over a week. I've been a gardening, falling in love, mamma recluse all summer. I've enjoyed the falling away of words to describe a life that is so completely Alive. But I can also hear them whispering something about telling my story in case it helps someone else along the way. Maybe you too have gardened or fallen in love or been a mother or father.
5. Part of the deal is that words can't "capture" your life. When you write about something that's happened to you, you're not describing it. You're actually adding another layer of complexity (or simplicity) to what you've lived through. Language isn't a camera. It's another appendage, another nerve. It allows you to move and feel even more "about" your life. I've never had much luck recreating my experience through language. But I have had some luck in enlarging my life through language. I suppose it was worth the three easy payments of $19.99 after all.